Why do we hurt someone we care about?

In life we encounter lots n lots of trials. Be it from our family, close friends, relatives, peers or even our pets. And it is hard to please everyone. Especially our loved ones. 

Sometimes i wonder why the closer we get to someone, we become even more fragile. I sometimes, not some i think, but lots of time face conflicts with someone dear to my heart. The closer i get, i become less sensitive about my words used. I easily bluttered out my words without thinking. Isnt it ironic? i love her, i care about her, but i hurt her :(

Shouldnt i be more cautious, more sensitive, and more concern? But why am i behaving this way?
I love her so much. So dearly. And i am so sure about it. I love her because of Allah n would always pray that Allah blessed us till the day we met Him.

Because i love her for the sake of Allah. I want to keep her heart at peace please.
Because of Allah i want her to always be happy and shower her with lots of happiness
Because Allah is the Most Merciful and Kind
I would like to be her light. May Allah always grant me with good words, good heart and be a blessing to others. Especially her. Cause Allah is the Most Merciful and kind. Cause He is the most Gracious and Kind. 

Kesayangan hati

Melihat mereka buat hati tersenyum gembira
Bersama mereka buat duka hilang entah ke mana
Merenung mereka buat aku ingin ke syurga secepatnya

Ya Allah panjangkan lah jodoh pertemuan kami hingga ke syurga

Dan terima kasih ya Allah atas nikmat terindah ini