Sometimes it doesnt work that way

Have you ever think of this??Sometimes we tried our best to plan something and hopping that it would bring pleasure to everybody. But sometimes it doesnt work that way. We tried to plan it systematically that we dont want to burden anybody close to us with any workload, so wo dont give them anywork, because we love them. I suppose it works that way.

But on the other side, that party might not be happy because of that. They feel neglected. Yeah I think so. They would rather choose to work rather than sitting with nothing to do.

See, sometimes the way we planned might not suit other people. Kita merancang sebaik yang mungkin, namun takdir adalah milik YAng Esa. Apa lagi hati dan perasaan.

This plan might work if we are dealing with our friends, but not with our family or anybody close to us. Sometimes we feels appreciated when we are given some workload and we knew that the person do have faith in us and that is why we were given that work. It is not a burden at all And they realize our existence there. It is much more comfortable to be in that situation rather than feeling like an alien in our own house.

Thus to be love is to be realize by our existence and trusted to do some work. And there is no 'istilah' like, "I dont want to burden you with this work" since we are family and family should work together. That is how family works.