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Kasih Sayang

Topik yang sering diperkatakan. Baik ketika kita masih di tadika, di sekolah, di universiti mahupun bagi mereka yang sudah bekerjaya. Mungkin ada sebilangan yang sudah jemu dengan 'common topic' seperti ini. Namun, memandangkan hal dan isu ini merupakan 'essential' dan 'core' bagi setiap perkara, maka kita akan kupas serba sedikit mengenainya sekali lagi. Jadi bersabar yer heheh.
Kasih sayang merupakan penghubung hati antara manusia. Tanpa kasih sayang manusia pasti bermusuhan. Cuba bayangkan, ketika ketika memandang wajah teman (A), tiada lain yang timbul dihati melainkan perasaan menyampah dan benci. Adakah mungkin kita akan mengukirkan secebis senyuman buatnya ketika? Pasti kita akan cuba sebaik mungkin untuk mengalihkan pandangan dan seboleh mungkin tidak mahu bertemu dengannya. Adakah hati kita merasa tenang ketika itu? Hati kita akan merasa gusar bukan? Berdebar-debar tanpa diminta. Nauzubillah. Hadith riwayat Tarmizi ada menyebutkan, bahawa Rasulallah bersabda yang berbunyi:-

"Man laa yarhaminnaasa laa yarhamhullaah"Barang siapa tidak
menyayangi manusia,Allah tidak akan menyayanginya.(H.R.Turmudzi)

Hadith itu telah menegaskan tanpa sifat sayang sesama manusia bagaimana mungkin Allah akan mengasihi kita. Dan alangkah RUGInya kita jika hidup persinggahan kita di dunia ini tanpa mendapat rahmat dan kasih sayang NYa. Sedangkan itu lah matlamat kita bukan. Pasti ramai yang pernah mendengar hadith ini:-

"Tidak sempurna iman seseorang di antara kalian sehingga ia mencintai saudaranya sebagaimana ia mencintai dirinya sendi"(HR Bukhari dan Muslim)

Namun tahukah kita sambungannya? (Heheh saya pun baru tahu nie) kemudian sahabat menjawab, "kami mengasihi Ya Rasulallah" Kemudian berkata rasulallah,

"Kasih sayang itu tidak terbatas pada kasih sayang salah seorang di antara kalian kepada sahabatnya (mukmin),tetapi bersifat umum (untuk seluruh umat manusia)."(H.R.Ath-Thabrani).

Jadi janganlah kita bersangka buruk dihati terhadap mereka yang berbeza dengan kita. Kerna sesungguhnya serenndah-rendah ukhwah itu adalah berlapang dada (Usnuzon). Kasih sayang dalam Islam tidak terbatas kepada manusia semata-mata. Kini bayangkan kita di medan perang. Pasti kita semangat kita sedang berkobar-kobar dan tidak sabar-sabar unutk menghunus senjatya menentang musush. Apa yang akan kita lakukakn apabila menjumpai musuh? Pasti tanpa ragu akak melakukan apa yang boleh bukan. Alhamdulillah. Bagaimana pula dengan mereka yang lain? Adakah kita akan menentang mereka juga? Seperti orang tua, kanak2, wanita, pokok? Mungkin ada yang berkata, "Kita patut hancurkan semua yang mereka miliki, ni kan tengah perang, sama macam yang mereka buat di Palestin tuh" Tapi cuba teka apa yang dikatakan dikatakan oleh pemimpin hebat kita=D Saidina Abu Bakar berpesan kepada pasukan Usamah bin Zaid;

"Janganlah kalian bunuh perempuan,orang tua,dan anak-anak kecil.Jangan pula kalian kebiri pohon-pohon kurma,dan janganlah kalian tebang pepohonan yang berbuah.Jika kalian menjumpai orang-orang yang tidak berdaya,biarkanlah mereka,jangan kalian ganggu."

Betapa mereka mengasihi segala makhluk yang bernyawa, termasuklah pohon-pohon itu sendiri. Subhanallah. Dan itulah sebaik-baik contoh yang kita perlu ikuti bukan?
Kasih sayang Allah cuba bayangkan. Apatah lagi! Tidak terbatas, tidak bertepi. Jika kita serendah-rendah makhluk ini tidak mampu unutk menyayang orang yang bersalah dengan kita, cuba bayangkan bagaimana perasaan PEMILIK kita? Kita yang sering melanggar apa yang disuruh, namun Rahmat dan Kasih sayangNYA masih kita rasakan. Jadi apa hak kita untuk membenci orang lain?

Renung-renungkan dan selamat Beramal

Melbourne~Day3~

This is our last day in Melbourne before we head to New Castle for Winter Retreat organized by the sisters there. Melbourne is simply the best, that is what I thought when I ride the cruise for AUD29 which took about 2 hours n 30min. It full with the fantastic building, pretty buzy though. But sorry bah, I dont have picture to prove it. The cruise took us around the city and we came across few bridges which were made at different time. The shape differ as they were build at different times. If they are made few decades before, the bridge would normally be straight, just like the 'titi' we saw at the village and basically it has lots of screw to keep them together. But as the time flies, the bridge seems to bend even more and no more screw use. Basically now they use concrit (I suppose). At that moment, I wish abah is there with me to explain things or if not I would love if I have a few engineering knowledge

Apart from that, we also ride a tourist bus around the city. But we couldnt go down and just stay on the bus. But one must stop place is Melbourne Univ, just for the sake of one picture in front of the univ (does it make any sense hihi)
On the same day, I went to the unforgattable place. For the forst time I went up a tower (besides menara Taming Sari, Melaka). It is called Eureka Tower. The view is fascinating! We went up to the 88th floor and I could see Melbourne from above. Subhanallah. It is full of light, show that Melbourne's population is quit big. I wonder how Allah look upon us from His Arash. How are we in his eyes? Sesungguhnya manusia hanya dinilai dari Iman dan Taqwanya. If from above here, looking at Melbourne only I feel that things underneath are small, how about me down here in ALlah's 'eyes' among all the people across the world? But sorry I dont have any good picture to show. But seriously it is fascinating.

Markov's Chain

STATS 125 topic on May 7,2008; Markov Chains. It is about simple random walk or Brownie motion. That might seems more familiar to some people. It is a process that evolves randomly over time and making next simplest assumption where P(Xn+1=s(n+1) I Xn=s(n) ). OK Lets not talk about it, but I found out something interesting related to this great theory=)

Somehow, from the theorem we know that what happens next depends only on the current state of system and not on its priory history. The same applied to ourlife I think. It doesnt matter how we get to this point, but what we do now going to determine where and what are we going to be tomorrow. Thus dont regret our yesterday and take it as a valuable experience. Make full of today so that you dont regret it tomorrow.

Exam is Over

Finally exam is OVER, alhamdulillah. Eventhough we only take four papers, but it feels like a long period of time. With two math papers, one statistic paper and one computer paper to finish, it took us almost 2 weeks. Isn't that long. But whatever it is, it is over.

Some of my friends even when to the Starbucks and some coffee shop to hang out and 'lepak'. It does sound like a celebration right? But as for me, I would rather rush back to my home and be on my bed right away. It is not something to celebrate i think since we are not all done actually. We still have the final sem exam coming. But still we need a moment to relax=)

At this point I am wondering, what is the point of studying actually??Do we study only for the sake of exam??Don't we study since we want the knowledge. I came to think about it after this one night. I was studying and it was nearly 1am in the morning. Then I 'buzz' my friend on YM and chat with him for a while. I told him that I' going to bed. Immediately he protested the idea, and said I should continue my study. I wonder, yeah maybe I should. But when he added a new point, my heart begin to protest. He said I should study for the exam tomorrow, and after exam I could sleep for how many days I want. I wonder, then what is the point? Am I studying just for the exam? No I am not. Exam is just something to measure what I had learn for the past 3 months. But do I have to sacrifise my sleep time?? Yeah at one point I should, but I dont think I should persuade myself that already tired to keep on going.

Maybe every person have different way of studying. Some of us prefer to wake up early and the other half may choose to sleep late at night studying. Anyway is possible. It is all depend on you. What you choose is what you are. And as for me, I choose to sleep early and study whenever I want and stop when I think that my body is tired. That is my way of studying. And I believe that Allah had created the wonderful night for us to rest our body. So use it wisely=)